Huh do your partners think your body should be owned by them or the state, and is your relationship and choices together not a personal issue?
Lose the partner instead . Its not love that’s for sure.
I’d not even consider being with my partner if he thought our personal life was up for institutional or state interference.
Free will, respect and trust is non negotiable in any healthy relationship. That is true intimacy.
If they love you, they will be on your side anyway, and trust your judgement on such things as well as respect any decisions you make.
These things are between you, your partner and God.
If not a sex ban wouldn’t be needed, as you can only deny your intimate partner that.
If he isn’t on your side in such big decisions he isn’t on your side about anything at all.
Even my relationship with Jesus isn’t forced by him, so a man trying to force me into anything I’m not happy about isn’t going to manage it either.
Love is not pressure, as you will see if you try to pressure them on such important things that effect them. Don’t settle ,and definately don’t emotionally blackmail or be emotionally blackmailed. 🌸 🌸 🌸