I get asked lots about the difference between a partner that’s destiny and a partner someone ends up with but may feel is destiny. 🌸 🌸 🌸
You will usually know if it’s destiny when you are not looking for a relationship at that point but meet someone and there is a friendship that organically grows into a relationship. 🌸
This is because when we don’t need a relationship we are not filled with unmet needs and are happy in ourselves, and so not seeking… This allows a destiny relationship and its energy to free flow towards you and a connection is made without blocks.
So when we meet the right person we are not coming from a blind chemistry reaction… We are evaluating if they will be adding to our lives and how they treat us… It feels natural . 🌸
When they say~ love is blind, that actually is true as it shuts down the part of the brain that evaluates the person for a while, so they are only responding to chemistry hits based on looks. 🌸
I say choose with the head first and heart later…
When our head chooses
We end up in a better relationship and when it organically grows into love its usually because they make us feel more stronger in a relationship than on our own.
Yes we are independent~ but when someone is concerned about your safety and able to provide you with advice or help solve difficulties and is there for you, it creates a bond that is more a chemistry hit than one based on looks alone ~as that fades and wears off. 🌸 It’s real. 🌸 So that’s my tips for determining destiny love and again…..
If wishing to meet the right person then it will happen organically and usually they will share the same values.
If you are happy being on your own then that’s even better because its not in everyone’s blueprint to meet someone as the soul has another purpose in life than finding someone. 🌸
I would only warn against courting someone who is for example incompatable with your core self and values say non religious,~if you are yourself religious as the value system will be different… Probably not destiny…
Would God really send someone your way if you love God but the partner doesn’t? … Maybe he will test you… Choose wisely though~ no one is more important than God’s love and purpose for you and without meaning ~ a partner may start indirectly asking you to choose them over God… Subtle but over time it can work if not rooted in God’s love.. You want a partner that shares that love ~ is my tip ~but if it is destiny then if exposed to this then they will usually end up sharing similar values.. . If its not destiny you will be asked to choose them over something 🌸 ..
which applies to anything that conflicts with your values .. Then mostly it is not a destiny relationship . Blessings 🌸 🌸 🌸