It’s not always going to end, mostly it does but even if it hasn’t ended and limps on for some time after, there has to be a deep overview of where it’s at now. Like
The significant other may never have peace of mind again and if it’s a lasting scar may also ruin their future relationships too eg being unable to trust anyone else’s due to the pain of this relationship.(Cue three of swords) That’s one thing to reflect on.
The other is how long will you be able to bare looking at this damage that may go on for an indefinite time and if truly sorry, can you handle this being thrown up on repeat or just watching the pain.
It either goes like the phoenix ~or if a second chance appears, the one who betrayed the other will have to show extreme patients and sensitivity and usually in those spreads they don’t which is why it happened in the first place.
Eg when will they get over it?
Its not a good idea to be putting time limits on the other or trying to control the time to make your life easier and especially if you were the one that broke the relationship with your actions.
Other selfish comments are usually said that reflects it being more about them than showing concern for their partner.
Most of time if this occurs and it hasn’t ended it ‘the relationship’ what later happens and will end it~ is the way the other handles the hurt partner.
If they are not understanding, are insensitive and start justifying it or worse blaming the other for their own actions and not taking any responsibility ~it will end and end without any remorse for them. because its just adding insult to their injury.
Lots of things do heal in time but only if the other can adapt with compassion, patients and showing sincere love and regret for their actions that they completely own. This is especially important if they have children together.
If no ties ask the angels for healing, it’s the most comforting feeling and helps aid you in times of pain and distress.
Calling Archangel Michael to help with cutting the energy cords to unbind you from this union and Archangel Raphael to start assisting you through the healing process for a brighter future free 🔆
They are always there for you 🌸 🌸 🌸 🌸